Changing ourselves makes us feel uneasy, but not being changed makes us feel dissatisfied.

English

When I was working at a trading company as an intern in the USA, I was always said ” It is really important to be interested in many things and search by yourself until you perfectly get the meaning” by my boss. Although, I found that I was satisfied with searching one time even if I did not understand the meaning well.

I noticed that if I did not change this situation, I could not make a continuous effort.

People can not be changed if they are staying in the same situation. We have to make new customs, meet new people, and learn new things. I decided not to miss any the of content and tried to search the words many times at first.

“Sow a thought, reap an action. Sow an action, reap a habit. Sow a habit, reap a character. Sow a character, reap a destiny.” William James said these words. From these words, I could understand the customs which small things added up in our daily lives impact our mind and our lifestyles so much.

If we choose a new life, we do not know what will be happened next, and we know it is difficult to manage new things. Even we are dissatisfied with ourselves, but it is easier not to be changed and it makes us comfortable. Changing ourselves makes us feel uneasy, but not being changed makes us feel dissatisfied. Until now, I have been choosing the latter. I noticed that the reason I can not change myself is deciding not being the change.

I think it will take a long time to change my present self. At first, I will try to concentrate on improving my daily habits and making a continuous effort.

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